has taken me some time to pay attention to the attitudes of women, in addition to the mistakes I've made my own experience, as well as analyze and compare these errors have a common denominator most men who want to conquer the woman who will lose sleep.
And guess what I found ...
- calls very quickly.
- Tell her what you really feel, very early in the relationship.
- Submit all your power to it and turn it into the head of the relationship.
- always ask women what they want instead of being a leader.
- Acting submissive and weak form.
- Always accept their demands and requirements.
- be your carpet and place your needs below it.
But .... How can you demonstrate your feelings for a woman calling every time you think of her, telling her how you feel, leaving her to decide to do, and put her in first place can be considered annoying?
women, especially the most attractive, as written above considered as very annoying and frustrating.
Very important: "It must have something in mind ... Women are not attracted to men stupid and needy."
The attraction is not something you can choose. Women do not feel a day to make a list of all the qualities a man can have, then think seriously for a few days and then decide whether they will be attracted or not that guy.
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The attraction passes in an instant, and go through a lot of reasons that may seem illogical. Reasons that women can not even describe.
Fiction # 1: Being a man good with women
Women do not base their selection criteria by a man on how good is this with her. They choose certain men because they make them feel a strong feeling inside.
Be kind to them does not create this feeling of attraction.
Be good to them that women do not choose them.
is not to be mean to them, but the point is ... if you're too good to you like mine ... never spend to be a good friend, tissue tears ... etc ...
What
men do when they meet a woman like much, but she simply does not have the slightest interest in them?
Right! They try to convince her to feel different. Les
I have news. "I never managed to change what a woman feels when it comes to attraction."
If a woman is attracted to you, how you want to change what we feel is reasonable and logical with it ?.... Impossible.
When a woman is simply not interested, we beg, plead, we follow, we try to make them think about how they would be as happy with us.
Very bad idea ... that never or very rarely works.
Mistake No. 3: Wait for her approval and permission.
In our desire to please a woman, we men are always doing things to get their approval and permission.
HORRIBLE!
Women are not attracted by men who are behind them as lapdogs.
Moreover, the women end up feeling that these men are a nuisance.
Mistake No. 4: Trying to win her affection by buying things.
How many times have you been eating a woman to luxurious places, I've bought gifts and flowers and you simply rejected by a man who was half as good as you?
This is quite natural that happens .... Why?
These sending a message saying
"I do not like you for who I am, so I will try to buy you and you attract appreciation"
Your good intentions are interpreted by women as compensation for insecurity you have and as feeble attempts of "manipulation"
Fiction No. 5: Express your feelings too early in the relationship.
There's nothing better in the world to ward off an attractive woman to say "I really like you" after a couple of dates. "
This suggests that women have no control and that your choices of women are limited just to her ... something that can kill off any attraction you may feel mild for you.
So if you really like this girl .... DO NOT TELL COMING SOON!
Mistake No. 6: Do not know how attraction works for women
Women are totally different from men in terms Tata will be attracted to the opposite sex.
Women are attracted to different qualities of man. And it is much more important as they make them feel that they are so cute.
If you know how to use body language and your communication with women, you can create in them, that powerful feeling of attraction for you.
And best of all, it can be learned ....
Mistake No. 7: Thinking that it takes money and beauty.
This is one of the biggest mistakes because it makes men give up before trying anything with a woman, thinking she is interested only in men handsome and wealthy.
And although there are women who are only interested in money and beauty of a man, most women are more interested in the personality of a man in your wallet or as seen. There
personalities that attract women. Just know what.
Mistake # 8: Give all your power to women.
Similar to await the approval and permission of a woman ...
hand over power to a woman, is doing everything she want, go where she wants to go, do what she wants to do, ask him where to eat, ask where you want to dance, etc.
Very very bad idea.
Mistake No. 9: Do not know what to do in every situation with women.
Women always know what you're thinking ...
Women are 10 times better reading body language than men.
If you're on a date and want to kiss her .... she knows it. And if you do nothing, do not know how to kiss her, do not know how to approach ... she just will not help you much. And end up as an insecure man and hesitant. And this applies to every stage of the relationship, from asking the phone to have sex.
Mistake No. 10: Do not ask or seek help.
The biggest mistake of all ...
Men do not like to see themselves as weak and needy, that is why we do not seek or ask for help on how to improve your game with women.
There is always a point that can be improved. One is not born with all the wisdom of the world, that's why you need to know when you need help, that's why you need to know ask, is why you have to delete all pride and know that one, with the help of others, can improve immensely. KEEP THE ATTRACTION
After you've met a woman that interests you and which you want to keep a relationship a little more stable, keep in mind that most likely are not the first man to be interested in it, so it must have some experience managing men who want to engage it.
Keep the attraction of a woman in you, is one of those processes that work contrary to what logic and common sense preach. This is why you should keep in mind:
- She was approaching men all the time.
- Most men end up behaving like dogs that do everything she asked.
- When a man works too well and soon in the relationship, she sees this as a sign of need and weakness. Which is not attractive.
Now think of something:
What factors make you want something? How do you make someone want something?
think, why you want certain things in your life ... ..
- Most people want things that do not go According to the logic.
- We simply want what we can not have. And once you have it, it becomes common and boring.
- Knowing that something is readily achievable causes you to lose interest quickly.
Thus, the factors that make someone want something would be:
- Create a challenge.
The challenges make people think and discuss ways to achieve that something. This is why women remain interested in men who are a challenge, because he kept thinking, how to make him fall in love more or how to make it safer in the relationship.
- Give a little something and quítaselo.
When you give something to a woman and then take it away, think it a feeling of "I want more of it," "What do I get over that" what will cause it to keep you in mind.
- Give the gift of missing you.
For women, think you, the miss, and anticipate what the next time you're together, can create much more attractive when really are together.
- be unpredictable.
be unpredictable acts like magic with women. Make an analogy with film. A film is totally predictable boring movie. An unpredictable film is a film with a good chance of winning an Oscar.
When a man knows how to make a woman feel attracted to, he will not do anything predictable. Be unpredictable forces women to think about it all the time.
FIRST AND FIRST ...
pd: As an additional comment, as written above does not mean that all women behave the same, but it is a fairly general.
